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Do you react same? ...

I understand people have different opinions, but way people react to few situations sometimes amuse me. Like I saw few people have no reaction to few situations which generally most react, people who don't express any signs of happiness, people who cannot cry even without any traumatic experiences. I did not understand why few people react that way, not having anu traumatic experience why people don't smile or cry, why they are unable to express themselves? should I just blame them, that they are not happy just because they are not smiling, or should i blame them that they are not sad if they don't cry?

People are different, we all know this but how far we understand cognitive ability of people? Cognitive ability refers to the brain's capacity to perform various mental processes. These abilities include memory, attention, reasoning, problem solving, perception, many mental processes. 

This cognitive skill enables individuals to understand others' perspectives and emotions. Cognitive ability affects where a person directs their attention and what details they focus on in a situation. This selective attention can shape their opinions and reactions. 

This does not mean people with high cognitive ability are better at understanding and reacting, even people with high cognitive ability suffer from forming a decision or opinion in various situation.

By telling all this, I want you to understand there are just different reasons, situations, experiences or just their way of seeing things or situations. So, let's just understand this and not judge people, strangers, friends or loved ones for not showing their emotions or not reacting the way we wanted. They just can't see the other, just like us not able to see their way.


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