Around You

  Dream of a boy...                          Once there lived a boy, who dreamt of living a successful life. He wanted to become a doctor. He urged for the time when he can take care of his parents, buy all they wanted. He joined the college studied good. He failed in his first attempt of MBBS entrance exam, he wanted to try again but his parents are not in a financial state to support his dreams. So, he did his degree and became a government teacher. He got married to a girl he only met once.                            He was asked to leave his parent's house to live with his wife. But his heart is still at his mother. Days passed he visited his parents once in a week, months passed, his wife got pregnant. He is the happiest man on the earth, the feeling being father took him of his feet. He was blessed with a baby girl. He loved his daughter, neve...

  Innocence...                              Children, the souls with utmost innocence. We all are children once, but we are not innocent now, not most of us. What changed us, our perspective, upbringing, experiences, society? Each shaped us into the person who we are now. But where did the innocence go, is it deep inside urging to be free again? or it just lost in search of ourselves?                               Ragu, a four-year-old, cries every day complaining when his sister, 2 months baby, does not speak with him. Manu, my cute little brother tells me he is the Hanuman and does not let anyone hurt me whenever I cry. Ammu, my little cousin, try to jump into water whenever she sees a pool so she can turn into mermaid.                              ...

   A note from girl by the window... I saw a girl sitting pass the window in a bus, I saw tears flowing through her gentle face. I smiled at her, she smiled back. I signaled her not to cry, she smiled but she is unable to resist the tears that flow like an endless ocean. Her heart is weeping. She passed a note to me, it says: "The voices inside your head are constant, they tell you to be nice, they tell not to hurt anyone, they tell you to be good, believe people, be kind. But when a person who you loved, believed the most hurt you, they say do not believe in people, do not expect people to be nice, do not love. These voices make you so tiresome, the constant urge to see people happy, to be the reason for someone's happiness, to be the good person is tiresome. I lately understood no matter how you are, there will be people who understand you and do not understand you. Not understanding is not a crime . Stop blaming people for not understanding you even if you put all your effo...

  Do you have stories? ...  Let me tell you a story, it is story of a boy, who has lovely parents and a cute little sister. He got all the toys he wanted, his parents mostly never said no for anything he wanted, one of the reasons for this is they love him and second one is they are wealthy, unlike many parents who wanted to buy everything their kid wanted but cannot because they can't afford it. Having wealthy parents, he studied in a very good school and a very good college. He got a job, not good but okay. I mean to his living style, the amount that his job pays is not good for him. So, he joined in his father's enterprise and lived life enjoying the richness. Does it sound like a wealthy son's routine story from movies? Ya, it is but the difference is... our way of seeing this story. This sounds like a good life, in fact many feels lucky to be born with a silver spoon, isn't it? but is it true? Is it really lucky to be born with silver spoon and get everything we wa...

Do you react same? ... I understand people have different opinions, but way people react to few situations sometimes amuse me. Like I saw few people have no reaction to few situations which generally most react, people who don't express any signs of happiness, people who cannot cry even without any traumatic experiences. I did not understand why few people react that way, not having anu traumatic experience why people don't smile or cry, why they are unable to express themselves? should I just blame them, that they are not happy just because they are not smiling, or should i blame them that they are not sad if they don't cry? People are different, we all know this but how far we understand cognitive ability of people? Cognitive ability refers to the brain's capacity to perform various mental processes. These abilities include memory, attention, reasoning, problem solving, perception, many mental processes.  This cognitive skill enables individuals to understand others...