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Do you have stories? ...

 Let me tell you a story, it is story of a boy, who has lovely parents and a cute little sister. He got all the toys he wanted, his parents mostly never said no for anything he wanted, one of the reasons for this is they love him and second one is they are wealthy, unlike many parents who wanted to buy everything their kid wanted but cannot because they can't afford it. Having wealthy parents, he studied in a very good school and a very good college. He got a job, not good but okay. I mean to his living style, the amount that his job pays is not good for him. So, he joined in his father's enterprise and lived life enjoying the richness. Does it sound like a wealthy son's routine story from movies? Ya, it is but the difference is... our way of seeing this story.

This sounds like a good life, in fact many feels lucky to be born with a silver spoon, isn't it? but is it true? Is it really lucky to be born with silver spoon and get everything we wanted? Tring to convince dad to get us a toy, sharing everything with sibling's, growing old to understand you parents, building your Carrer the way you wanted, feeling of failure, learning from the failure, having responsibilities, struggling to make your life better, working hard to buy your parents a car, these feelings are experiences which give story to your boring life. 

Without these feelings of failure, happiness, struggle to get the things you like, compromise for your loved ones, without all these are we actually living? What is a human without experiences and stories that make us.

Have thousands of stories to talk about when you get older and fill your boring life with life. The way you live your life, makes you, that is your character, your kindness, your love, your passion. They come from your life, your struggles.

I am not telling you to love hardships, I am telling you to own your hardships as they make your story.

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